Knowingly or Unknowingly

You should always be aware of your circumstances and work your feelings according to it. When you know that you do not have the freedom or may be courage to go with your feelings then you should not step up on the way that leads to hurt somebody else’s feelings. Be it knowingly or unknowingly, but there exist such  faint-hearted person who are like this and they hurt you a lot when you get attached to them.

It is knowingly or unknowingly that such person enters in your life is a mystery in itself. Who actually should be blamed for knowingly or unknowingly ruining other person’s emotion? Of course the person lacking conviction, boldness or courage is the main culprit. You knowingly or unknowingly do things that you feel like doing at that very moment without thinking of its long term consequences. When such person  is  made to realize how much he is responsible for giving a bruising experience to someone then at that very moment he  become defensive and start justifying himself by stating that it’s not only you who is hurt and he is hurt equally. What to say at this? Is it knowingly or unknowingly that such difficulty come?

The people who remain calm and subtle are able to balance themselves very well. They speak less but are insidious and hurt a lot. I know that it is not the mistake of such person to be like that and behave in such treacherous way.

Knowingly or unknowingly, when you entrust your feelings with someone who has to at last turn away, then that is something exceptionally displeasing that can ever happen to you. It is question big in itself that does such person deserve what he is being entrusted upon!! 


Knowingly or unknowingly, you expect things which he knowingly does not do because he does not do things that he does not want to do unless it is his whim to do it(For e.g.- you expect things like writing for you and presenting something that remain memorable). Knowingly or unknowingly, such person is expected things that he does not want others to expect from him and therefore maybe  it’s right for him to be like that. But, knowingly or unknowingly such person becomes cause of other’s suffering. Life is like that – unpredictable and dreadful!!

(Zindagi pe tera mera kisi ka na zor hai

Hum sochte hain kuch wo socti kuch aur hai

Ye zindagi

Hum chahate yahan hai ye jati kahin aur hai

Lamhe aur lamhon ke beech ye tede mede mod hain

Ye zindagi

Meri jaan meri jaan meri jaan tu ye bata

Tujhse karun wafa ya khud se karun

Sachche jhoote wado se hona hai kya

Hum ko nahi pata hai jab kal hoga kya)