Ripsy- My Milieu

 I have no right, by anything I do or say, to demean a human being in his own eyes. What matters is not what I think of him; it is what he thinks of himself. To undermine a man's self-respect is a sin. Agreed. Understand what you are actually free to do. Don't do anything to undermine somebody else's or even yours  self-respect. It happens that you feel like a  prisoner when you are not able to freely say anything. Actually, fault is with the rights that you have with yourself. You can question that why you demanded something of which you did not have any rights. It seems that you have a restraint that confines or restricts freedom. See, you need to be free of the shackles. Fly high. That's what your aim is. Come out of the prison. You are not a culprit. You are an independent soul. If you have not got the rights to freely exercise your power on something, then don't just force yourself to get those rights. Simply accept that you don't the rights and fre...

Sajna de ba jo main te Jike hun ki karna rabba Anju bhi hun mukh gaye sare Hun te mila de rabba Kismat ka ye khel hai Milna tha humne kabhi Hathon ki lakeeron mein Likha tha ye sabhi Koi jaane naa maane Ye saath hain kitna haseen kash ye pal tham jaaye Aap ke hum ban jaaye Jannat bhulake hum teri Aankhon ke ashq ban jaaye kash ye pal tham jaaye Aap ke hum ban jaaye Jannat bhulake hum teri Aankhon ke ashq ban jaaye Janam janam ka ye saath hain chut ta hi aise nahi pyaar tera aisa mila ke ab koi bhaata nahin Bahon mein aa ke teri Saason mein simat jaaye kash ye pal tham jaaye Aap ke hum ban jaaye Jannat bhulake hum teri Aankhon ke ashq ban jaaye kash ye pal tham jaaye Aap ke hum ban jaaye Jannat bhulake hum teri Aankhon ke ashq ban jaaye Ashq ban jaaye Pal tham jaaye Ashq ban jaaye ye pal tham jaaye Haathon ki Kismat Ka Koi jaane Na maane Ye saath hai kitnaa Haseen kash ye pal (na na na na na) Aap ke hum (na na na na na) Jannat b...

Now this is height of discontent. Why all the evil  clouds being gathered together ? When will the propitious omens be shown ? There is always a saturation point to everything. The extreme limit up to which situation remain in your hands is acceptable. Whose stars are stopping from auguring favorable circumstances? There is something which is not acceptable.

Tere bina zindagi se koyi, shikwa, to nahi, shikwa nahi Tere bina zindagi bhi lekin, zindagi, to nahi, zindagi nahi         Kaash aisa ho tere qadmo se, chun ke manzil chale aur kahi door kahi Tum gar saath ho, manzilo ki kami to nahi Tere bina zindagi se koyi, shikwa, to nahi         Jee mein aata hai, tere daaman mein, sar jhuka ke ham rote rahe, rote rahe Teri bhi aankho mein, aansuo ki nami to nahi Tere bina zindagi se koyi, shikwa, to nahi Tere bina zindagi bhi lekin, zindagi, to nahi       Tum jo keh do to aaj ki raat, chaand doobega nahi, raat ko rok lo Raat ki baat hai, aur zindagi baaki to nahi Tere bina zindagi se koyi, shikwa, to nahi Tere bina zindagi bhi lekin, zindagi, to nahi !!!

There are phases when everything seems to be convoluted and you are not able to come out of the intricacy involved in them. Things that matter most to me- My Career , obviously I live for it,  is in a dubious state. I understand that with time this dubiousness will subside because I will work for it. I am endowed with the belief that if you have the spirit to fight then you ought to succeed some or the other day. Apart from this there are things that matter to me and even if I try a lot moving away from them so that they do not matter to me, I become helpless. It happened to me that to whom I bestowed with extraordinary care in my life was the one who did not deserve an iota of it even. Every time , I just punish myself and live in a state of anguish. But what help does that do to me ?  I 'll conquer my helplessness someday. But, when that day will come ? When I had just two days time to be with my dear parents, why the hell I took time to waste upon someone who really ...

Why there is a need to put a fake smile when you can have real smile too !!

You should always be aware of your circumstances and work your feelings according to it. When you know that you do not have the freedom or may be courage to go with your feelings then you should not step up on the way that leads to hurt somebody else’s feelings. Be it knowingly or unknowingly, but there exist such  faint-hearted person who are like this and they hurt you a lot when you get attached to them. It is knowingly or unknowingly that such person enters in your life is a mystery in itself. Who actually should be blamed for knowingly or unknowingly ruining other person’s emotion? Of course the person lacking conviction, boldness or courage is the main culprit. You knowingly or unknowingly do things that you feel like doing at that very moment without thinking of its long term consequences. When such person  is  made to realize how much he is responsible for giving a bruising experience to someone then at that very moment he  become defensive and start justi...