Had it been !!

You can't always come up with the optimal solution, but you can usually come up with a better solution. Nobody likes compromises in his life. Everyone dreams to have the bestest of best to arrive. But, you are sometime given to choose  something that seems to be a compromise to you which may be for others seem to be optimal solution.


In human relationships "compromise" is frequently said to be an agreement that no party is happy with, this is because the parties involved often feel that they either gave away too much or that they received too little....

When you believe you have got an optimal solution so that no compromise would be needed then at that very point you are realized that solution was shown to you for an instant. It actually did not arrive. Or more correctly, it arrived but it went away. Now, the things at your end seems to be dizzy again.

I came across somewhere something like this-" A compromise of choice isn’t a weak moment or a giddy transgression in which we feverishly relish cheating – on ourselves. (What’s that about anyway?) Compromise in the Primal Blueprint is a fully informed and intentional act. We consciously choose how we will balance the enjoyment of everyday life with the commitment to cultivating health and well-being."

I was shown some rosy expectations and I started believing them. I thought it to be just the way I wanted. And why not ? if there is such a thing as perfection, why can't I have it? And if I think I caught sight of it, I want to possess it, and hang the consequences.

I agree that life is about compromise, maintaining good relations with the people we need to rub along with, keeping doors open and taking one day at a time. Solutions are rarely perfect, just workable.

But still, life 's certain decisions can have compromises but the life itself cannot be a compromise. Whatever ....