Lights Off and Camera On ...
There might be phases in life whereby you can come across the violation of an expressed or perceived trust by a person or persons with whom you relies upon for some aspect of your life. Such events of life results in extreme biopsychosocial distress far beyond the event itself.t disrupts the person’s established mental model by which he or she views, understands, and responds to his or her environment and life events, destabilizes the co-occurring psychological contracts by which one trusts, and negates important aspects of viable strategies by which the person copes with life events.These are some scientific facts and I cannot go deeper into it !
Yes, of course I can discuss about it further without going too scientific so that I can relate with the aforesaid description. To have a blind belief on something is actually very injurious. If ever you give someone the right to control your happiness then obviously some or other day you will realize that you have been betrayed. Though, from the concerned person's perspective, this might not be the case. It happens that there might be a phase when sharing of ideas and talking seems to occupy a big chunk of your happiness...Talking is a complicated form of a relationship in which two people often enjoy each others company . After a while they might realize cons of such time waste and feel like punishing themselves if they are not strong enough or might take it casually too. It may sound like - baat karo to punishment ...na karo to punishment..wat 1 sud do in this case...its like its all me who is doing wrong !! Hehe.... So funny !! But life is sometime like that !!

"If ever you give someone the right to control your happiness then obviously some or other day you will realize that you have been betrayed."
ReplyDeleteThis is the line that I liked the most.....but actually this is the case with those peoples rely upon others, to make them happy, joy....(really don't wants to say this...)