Ripsy- My Milieu

There are situations when you start disbelieving your strengths and put up your weakness at par with them. The things you are denied, are the things you crave the most. For example when you are told that a particular things does not deserve to be yours and it does not stand any future prospects , then that things you desire the most. It is at these situations your emotions plays the role of weakening your strengths. Emotions are a person’s feelings. They may be expressed in the form of ardor, excitement, warmth, anger or even passion. Researches even talk about the fact that emotions   rather than IQ may be a truer indicator of human intelligence. EQ or Emotional Quotient, is a tricky business and can`t be easily pinned down.These are some scientific facts and I would not go deep into it . What I exactly mean to say here is about emotion - which is a word that depicts weakness. I do  not know whether what I have experienced is exactly what is the real thing. Its really ...

How could this be explained ? Perhaps there cannot be any explanation of how I insulted myself and let myself go down . I used to have a dignified demeanour but by being attenuated by my own overwhelming emotions, I literally showed up a maudlin expression and disdained my own image :( :( :( :( :( .Or Why should one be held liable for everything wrong . May be the circumstances and destiny should be held liable. Then it might not be I who let myself down !!!!!! What so ever be the thing but at last its I who was let down. 

When the river flows , then its flow is always from high

Love the life you are living and it will become the life you love. It’s very important to realize that you are complete in yourself. Nobody’s existence can make it better or lesser. You have everything within you. Look at the sky. We are not alone. The whole universe is friendly to us and conspires only to give the best to those who dream and work. I believe that when you realize that you have everything in you that is required to be successful then that would certainly imply that you are competent enough to make a mark in this world full of competition and opportunities. It’s always good to have a company of some nice people. But, you should never become dependant on the need to have somebody with you always. That’s why I say, stay with yourself for a day and you will realize that you are complete in yourself. This very day, I am with myself. I decided to be so for it would give me time to realize my aspirations and what I actually want from my life. There are a lot more than jus...

Aaoge Jab Tum ..Barsega saawan Jhoom jhoom ke Do dil aise milenge..Aaoge Jab Tum  Anjane hi tere naino ne..Waade kiye kaie saare hai Saanson ki lay..Madham chalein Tose gaye barasega saawan..Barasega saawan..Jhoom jhoomke Do dil aise milenge Aaoge jab tum ,Angana phool khilenge Chanda ko taaku raaton mein..Hai zindagi tere haanthon mein Palkon pe jhilmil taarein hain..Aana bhari barsaaton mein Sapnon ka jahaan..Hoga khila khila Barasega saawan..Barasega saawan..Jhoom jhoom ke Do dil aise milenge..Aaoge jab tum !

This I have heard a lot of time but I realized today .Every situation when viewed from different perspective will be thought of differently .Today ,I realized the friend who speaks of doing things for you whenever you will need may not be the one who will come forth to help you when you really need him .I did not actually needed my friend to do anything for me but one thing uttered by him made me realize that may be I am asking for too much even by asking for nothing . In life you find many people ,some you believe to be your friend and some come out to make you believe that they are actually your friend .I realized today that one whom I expected to do things for me never came up to my expectations and always became cause of my distress .This is not anyone's fault but the situations showed up this way that I realize today whenever I will be needing you my friend ,I'll not find you by my side which had been the case always .Today ,I am talking about just  particular friend of m...

I listen this very often because people around me believe that I think more than required !!!! I know it sounds weird but its a truth that  when something occupies your mind more than your heart then you actually cannot stop thinking of it .It happens in stages and obviously its a long process indeed . Firstly ,something is occupied whole heartedly then after a certain stage when you become obsessed with it ,it occupies a space in your mind . As an individual , your thinking should not be dependent on anyone and somebody's else action should not influence it either .But , if I talk of very emotional people then things with them are far different .Their happiness are always influenced by others and their thinking process never stops . Psychologists have concentrated on thinking as an intellectual exertion aimed at finding an answer to a question or the solution of a practical problem .Its a scientific description of thinking and obviously we'll agree with this .I person...