Ripsy- My Milieu

There might be phases in life whereby you can come across the violation of an expressed or perceived trust by a person or persons with whom you relies upon for some aspect of your life. Such events of life results in extreme biopsychosocial distress far beyond the event itself.t disrupts the person’s established mental model by which he or she views, understands, and responds to his or her environment and life events, destabilizes the co-occurring psychological contracts by which one trusts, and negates important aspects of viable strategies by which the person copes with life events.These are some scientific facts and I cannot go deeper into it ! Yes, of course I can discuss about it further without going too scientific so  that I can relate with the aforesaid description. To have a blind belief on something is actually very injurious. If ever you give someone the right to control your happiness then obviously some or other day you will realize that you have been betrayed. Th...

You can't always come up with the optimal solution, but you can usually come up with a better solution. Nobody likes compromises in his life. Everyone dreams to have the bestest of best to arrive. But, you are sometime given to choose  something that seems to be a compromise to you which may be for others seem to be optimal solution. In human relationships "compromise" is frequently said to be an agreement that no party is happy with, this is because the parties involved often feel that they either gave away too much or that they received too little.... When you believe you have got an optimal solution so that no compromise would be needed then at that very point you are realized that solution was shown to you for an instant. It actually did not arrive. Or more correctly, it arrived but it went away. Now, the things at your end seems to be dizzy again. I came across somewhere something like this-" A compromise of choice isn’t a weak moment or a giddy transgre...

Change is the law of nature....Changes are always good.....It was a change when you were gone....Changes are welcomed......sometimes with a large heart ..sometimes with a heavy heart....... You never know what's coming your way.....You cannot be prepared for every situation....So, just go with the changes..............

 I have no right, by anything I do or say, to demean a human being in his own eyes. What matters is not what I think of him; it is what he thinks of himself. To undermine a man's self-respect is a sin. Agreed. Understand what you are actually free to do. Don't do anything to undermine somebody else's or even yours  self-respect. It happens that you feel like a  prisoner when you are not able to freely say anything. Actually, fault is with the rights that you have with yourself. You can question that why you demanded something of which you did not have any rights. It seems that you have a restraint that confines or restricts freedom. See, you need to be free of the shackles. Fly high. That's what your aim is. Come out of the prison. You are not a culprit. You are an independent soul. If you have not got the rights to freely exercise your power on something, then don't just force yourself to get those rights. Simply accept that you don't the rights and fre...

Sajna de ba jo main te Jike hun ki karna rabba Anju bhi hun mukh gaye sare Hun te mila de rabba Kismat ka ye khel hai Milna tha humne kabhi Hathon ki lakeeron mein Likha tha ye sabhi Koi jaane naa maane Ye saath hain kitna haseen kash ye pal tham jaaye Aap ke hum ban jaaye Jannat bhulake hum teri Aankhon ke ashq ban jaaye kash ye pal tham jaaye Aap ke hum ban jaaye Jannat bhulake hum teri Aankhon ke ashq ban jaaye Janam janam ka ye saath hain chut ta hi aise nahi pyaar tera aisa mila ke ab koi bhaata nahin Bahon mein aa ke teri Saason mein simat jaaye kash ye pal tham jaaye Aap ke hum ban jaaye Jannat bhulake hum teri Aankhon ke ashq ban jaaye kash ye pal tham jaaye Aap ke hum ban jaaye Jannat bhulake hum teri Aankhon ke ashq ban jaaye Ashq ban jaaye Pal tham jaaye Ashq ban jaaye ye pal tham jaaye Haathon ki Kismat Ka Koi jaane Na maane Ye saath hai kitnaa Haseen kash ye pal (na na na na na) Aap ke hum (na na na na na) Jannat b...

Now this is height of discontent. Why all the evil  clouds being gathered together ? When will the propitious omens be shown ? There is always a saturation point to everything. The extreme limit up to which situation remain in your hands is acceptable. Whose stars are stopping from auguring favorable circumstances? There is something which is not acceptable.

Tere bina zindagi se koyi, shikwa, to nahi, shikwa nahi Tere bina zindagi bhi lekin, zindagi, to nahi, zindagi nahi         Kaash aisa ho tere qadmo se, chun ke manzil chale aur kahi door kahi Tum gar saath ho, manzilo ki kami to nahi Tere bina zindagi se koyi, shikwa, to nahi         Jee mein aata hai, tere daaman mein, sar jhuka ke ham rote rahe, rote rahe Teri bhi aankho mein, aansuo ki nami to nahi Tere bina zindagi se koyi, shikwa, to nahi Tere bina zindagi bhi lekin, zindagi, to nahi       Tum jo keh do to aaj ki raat, chaand doobega nahi, raat ko rok lo Raat ki baat hai, aur zindagi baaki to nahi Tere bina zindagi se koyi, shikwa, to nahi Tere bina zindagi bhi lekin, zindagi, to nahi !!!