Ripsy- My Milieu

Just like that ...Drowning Today I am writing without giving any title to it...Its a random piece where I am gonna write randomly . When both negative as well the positive sides of anything is  infront of you, then what you  do ? Keep it in your heart or throw it away !! When you are given to decide upon a very important thing, something that will affect your life, then obviously you decide it meticulously. Running after a small term emotion is not worth. Yes, actually its a sheer waste of your precious time. The time which should be used for doing something constructive-something that will benefit you. How can you just let your time go away from your hands ? Things will be remembered and forgotten with time. It will rarefy with time. But, when something had to be lost some day then why was it found one day !! Do the present  impressions of life has  no relevant role ? But it is the present in which one lives his life . It is the present which affects ...

Just like an another day ! Today is also  the day  when I am writing after a very long time. The reason is very simple that the inspiration behind writing had distanced from me. Now, the distance still remains but somehow it has diminished a little which is why I want to begin another day in my life by starting to share with you again some unsaid/said stories.  Life has taken lots of twists in this span of time and shown all new panorama. I  believe in doing my part with utmost sincerity and truthfulness. I have learnt one lesson that I would like to share which is be firm in your determination so much as to nothing can deviate you from achieving from what you want. It's all about knowing what you exactly want from yourself. Believe me knowing this is not at all easy though it might seem otherwise.  I have the habit of looking back to all the previous incidents lot more than the times it's reasonable enough to do so. I really want to give up...

There was a Boy ‘n a Girl, They were best friends for years ‘n years, They could  Talk for hours on the Phone ‘n text each other for days, When They were Together; Not a single Sad Thought could cross their Minds, everything was Great, But One Day; The Boy did not Answer any Call or Reply to any Text for a Day, The Girl was worried that something was Wrong.. at night She couldn’t Sleep.., She was sitting in her Room Crying, ‘n It was then that She Realized how much He Means to Her..? The next Morning; She woke Up from a Phone call.., It was the Boy.. Boy : Hey.., Girl : Im so glad that you Called Me, What happened to you yesterday ?? Boy : I was Busy [ The GIRL Understood that; Something was Wrong but could not Ask] [silence] Boy : You know..; We should Stop talking..! Girl: What??.., But Why ?? Boy: I am Sorry, Bye..! [He Disconnected the call, 'n She Felt as If Somebody had Slammed the door on Her face] Everything else Flashed in Her Mind, Tea...

There might be phases in life whereby you can come across the violation of an expressed or perceived trust by a person or persons with whom you relies upon for some aspect of your life. Such events of life results in extreme biopsychosocial distress far beyond the event itself.t disrupts the person’s established mental model by which he or she views, understands, and responds to his or her environment and life events, destabilizes the co-occurring psychological contracts by which one trusts, and negates important aspects of viable strategies by which the person copes with life events.These are some scientific facts and I cannot go deeper into it ! Yes, of course I can discuss about it further without going too scientific so  that I can relate with the aforesaid description. To have a blind belief on something is actually very injurious. If ever you give someone the right to control your happiness then obviously some or other day you will realize that you have been betrayed. Th...

You can't always come up with the optimal solution, but you can usually come up with a better solution. Nobody likes compromises in his life. Everyone dreams to have the bestest of best to arrive. But, you are sometime given to choose  something that seems to be a compromise to you which may be for others seem to be optimal solution. In human relationships "compromise" is frequently said to be an agreement that no party is happy with, this is because the parties involved often feel that they either gave away too much or that they received too little.... When you believe you have got an optimal solution so that no compromise would be needed then at that very point you are realized that solution was shown to you for an instant. It actually did not arrive. Or more correctly, it arrived but it went away. Now, the things at your end seems to be dizzy again. I came across somewhere something like this-" A compromise of choice isn’t a weak moment or a giddy transgre...

Change is the law of nature....Changes are always good.....It was a change when you were gone....Changes are welcomed......sometimes with a large heart ..sometimes with a heavy heart....... You never know what's coming your way.....You cannot be prepared for every situation....So, just go with the changes..............

 I have no right, by anything I do or say, to demean a human being in his own eyes. What matters is not what I think of him; it is what he thinks of himself. To undermine a man's self-respect is a sin. Agreed. Understand what you are actually free to do. Don't do anything to undermine somebody else's or even yours  self-respect. It happens that you feel like a  prisoner when you are not able to freely say anything. Actually, fault is with the rights that you have with yourself. You can question that why you demanded something of which you did not have any rights. It seems that you have a restraint that confines or restricts freedom. See, you need to be free of the shackles. Fly high. That's what your aim is. Come out of the prison. You are not a culprit. You are an independent soul. If you have not got the rights to freely exercise your power on something, then don't just force yourself to get those rights. Simply accept that you don't the rights and fre...